There’s something special that happens when a group of women sits down around a paint-covered table. There are brushes, bright colors, door hangers, and plenty of “Tamara, help me!” moments.

But after teaching women to paint for years, I can tell you this: The finished project is only part of what we’re creating. We’re also creating friendships, confidence, memories, and a little space in our lives to do something simply because it brings us joy. 

That’s one of the biggest reasons I love Southern Adoornments Live and our creative community so much.

You Don’t Have to Be Artistic to Join a Creative Community

One of the things I hear ALL the time is:

“I’m just not creative.”

Or…

“Everyone else is going to be better than me.”

I wish I could convince every woman who thinks this to give herself one chance to try.

You do not have to walk into painting already knowing what you’re doing. That’s the whole point of learning.

Some women sit down with a paintbrush feeling completely confident. Others are nervous before they even make the first brushstroke. 

Painting is a skill you can learn. You start with what you know, ask questions when you need help, and trust the process when your project hits that awkward stage where you’re pretty sure you’ve ruined the whole thing.

If getting started is the part that feels intimidating, our beginner-friendly painting tutorial can help you build those skills one project at a time.

Why Creative Hobbies for Women Matter

As women, we spend a lot of our lives taking care of other people. We’re raising kids, helping with grandkids, working, caring for parents, keeping up with the house, running errands, and handling the 47 things nobody else seems to notice need doing.

Somewhere along the way, it’s easy to stop making time for ourselves.

That’s why I believe having a creative hobby as an adult can matter so much.

Painting gives you permission to sit down and focus on one thing for a while (other than those “need-to-dos” on your list). 

For some women, painting becomes a way to relax after a stressful day. For others, it’s something fun to look forward to each week. And for some, creativity becomes part of rediscovering who they are in a new season of life.

I’ve talked before about why making time for creativity matters, especially when you’ve spent years putting everyone else first.

It doesn’t have to be productive. You don’t have to turn it into a business. You don’t even have to be particularly good at it when you begin.

You’re allowed to create simply because creating makes you happy.

Why Painting With Other Women Feels Different

I love that we can paint at home. That’s a HUGE part of what we do at Southern Adoornments.

But creating together brings another layer to the experience.

When you’re surrounded by women who are also learning, experimenting, and occasionally making a complete mess of something, perfection starts to matter a whole lot less. 

That kind of creative community is one of my favorite things to watch. It’s also why Southern Adoornments Live means so much to me. Yes, we paint, but it’s the conversations, laughter, encouragement, and friendships happening around those paint-covered tables that I remember most.

I’ve seen friendships begin online inside our Southern Adoornments community and become real-life friendships.

That’s when you realize this was never only about door hangers.

What to Do When You Feel Intimidated by Painting

If you’re nervous about joining a painting workshop, creative membership, or in-person painting event, I want you to remember something…

Do not compare your beginning to someone else’s experience.

The woman sitting next to you may have painted 100 door hangers. That doesn’t mean you’re behind. It means she started before you did.

And please ask for help. There is no prize for struggling quietly. If you don’t understand a technique, ask. Sometimes one small tip is all it takes for something to click.

You should also expect an ugly stage.

I say “trust the process” for a reason. Your project may not look like much halfway through. Keep going!

Finding a Creative Community Where Beginners Belong

If you’ve been looking for a creative hobby for women, especially one you can enjoy from home AND share with other people, look for a community that makes beginners feel welcome.

You want a place where questions are encouraged, mistakes are normal, and nobody expects you to magically know how to paint before you’ve been taught.

That’s what I want Southern Adoornments to be.

Whether we’re together at Southern Adoornments Live, painting online, working through a new door hanger design, or sharing finished projects, I want women to know there’s a place for them here.

Ready to Make a Little Room for Creativity?

If there’s a little voice in your head saying, “That looks fun, but I could never do that,” I want you to challenge it. You don’t have to show up as an artist. You don’t need years of experience, the perfect supplies, or some magical creative gene.

You just have to show up willing to try.

That’s exactly why I created the Southern Adoornments community and the Painter’s Clubhouse.

It’s a place to learn how to paint, build your confidence, ask questions, try new projects, and connect with women who understand that sometimes you need a little creative time that belongs to YOU.

Come paint with us and see what you can create. Learn more about joining the Painter’s Clubhouse →

Frequently Asked Questions About Painting Door Hangers

What if I’m not artistic?

You are exactly the kind of person I love teaching.

Creativity isn’t something reserved for people who were born “artistic.” Painting techniques can be learned and practiced. Give yourself permission to be a beginner.

Is painting a good hobby for women over 40, 50, or 60?

Absolutely! There is no age limit on creativity.

Painting can be a fun way to make time for yourself, learn something new, meet other women, relieve some everyday stress, and add a creative outlet to your life during any season.

 Is it better to paint at home or attend an in-person painting event?

Both can be wonderful. Painting at home gives you flexibility and lets you create on your own schedule. In-person painting events give you the experience of learning, laughing, and creating alongside other women.

That’s one reason I love having both online learning and opportunities to create together through Southern Adoornments.

What is the Painter’s Clubhouse?

The Painter’s Clubhouse is our Southern Adoornments painting membership and creative community where women can grow their painting skills, find encouragement, work on new projects, and connect with other women who love creating.

You don’t have to be an artist to belong here.

You just have to be ready to pick up a brush, trust the process, and see what happens.